Competing Values - Right vs. Wrong
Obviously, the decision making process involves making a choice. Duh. The mystery now becomes - what factors or influences help us arrive at a particular decision? Since we were born, our parents, siblings, teachers, coaches and society has been instilling in us values - either verbally or through example. Values can be simply defined as ones personal beliefs.
Nearly all youth have the ability to distinguish right from wrong, but they frequently don't act on this knowledge. When asked, they can usually give the right answer but, when faced with an actual situation, they often choose a real response reflecting a different set of values. There is a gap between their perception of what is right and what is real. In other words, without consideration to our values, we tned to choose to do something we know is wrong.
"Do what is right and avoid what is wrong." - Lou Holtz
The following beliefs and values provide the framework that guides the decisions we make everyday.
Compassion
Courage
Fairness
Dependability
Honesty
Respect
Loyality
Responsibility
Being young in today's society is difficult enough without comprimising the values and beliefs that have been bestowed within you. Believe in your values and DO WHAT'S RIGHT.
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